Jerry Towler

Self-driven.

Saturday Is the Day of Pre-Rest

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“No, Saturday is the day of pre-rest. Yeah, so that way, when you actually get to Sunday, you’re rested enough to enjoy your rest.”

—Lorelai Gilmore, Gilmore Girls, S1E17

Our marathon-of-marathons has surfaced a lovely bit of wisdom: Lorelai Gilmore has accidentally invented a two-stage Sabbath.

Her formulation is, typically for Lorelai, absurd: recover on Saturday so you can achieve maximum resting efficiency on Sunday. But she has the direction right.

We often rest from work. We spend ourselves all week, collapse over the weekend, and recover just enough by Sunday night to begin again. Rest, in this mode, is mere maintenance for the productivity machine.

I believe this pattern is backwards. We should, instead, work from rest.

Rather than work being the center of our lives and rest preparing us for more work, we ought to put rest first and carry its strength into our work.

We begin by remembering that the world continues without our supervision, that our lives are gifts before they are accomplishments, and that work does not have to prove our worth. Then, when it is time to work, we work from strength rather than borrowing against next weekend.

Lorelai’s formula, delivered at 6am with fuzzy, purring alarm clock in hand, is an objection to Rory’s over-the-top Saturday task list. But in it lies wisdom: rest is not merely what we do after the work is finished. It can, and should, be where good work begins.